Interestingly, I happened to chair a Master's thesis defense from the oncology department last week, which dealt with the manufacturing of dosimeters that can be used to estimate the amount of radiation that is actually delivered to cancer patients. This test is done while planning the treatment, and before the actual delivery, to make sure that the radiation dose is uniform.
Obviously I read the thesis with much interest, as it contained many interesting definitions. So the definition of a gray is the amount of ionizing radiation, in Joules, delivered per kg of mass. In other words, 12 Gy of radiation would be equivalent to 12 Joules/kg of mass (1 kg = 2.204 lbs for our American friends). As mass is of course related to volume, the total amount of radiation received would be then dependent on the volume of the tumor.
Copying from Wikipedia: "A whole-body exposure to 5 or more gray of high-energy radiation at one time usually leads to death within 14 days. This dosage represents 375 joules for a 75 kg adult" This explains the article that TW found, about the radiation exposure of Nagasaki victims. If you deliver 5 Gys to the whole body (say 75 kgs), this is a hopping 375 Joules. But if you deliver 5 Gys to a tumor, say of 10 ccs (which I will assume that is equal to 10 grams or 0.01 kg), this will amount to 5x0.01=0.05 Joules. So it all depends on the weight of the tissue being radiated.
For comparison, again from Wikipedia, "For curative cases, the typical dose for a solid epithelial tumor ranges from 60 to 80 Gy, while lymphomas are treated with 20 to 40 Gy. Preventive (adjuvant) doses are typically around 45 - 60 Gy in 1.8 - 2 Gy fractions (for Breast, Head, and Neck cancers.)"
One more thing: In radiotherapy, we are talking about "ionizing" radiation, which is radiation that during an interaction with an atom, it can remove tightly bound electrons from their orbits, causing the atom to become charged or ionized. This can come from many sources, like gamma rays (from a Cobalt source), X-rays, etc. Radioactivity (say from an atomic bomb) also results in radiation, but of course obviously with much more detrimental effects.
Sorry about the technical post, but this is fascinating, and also the source of confusion, so it is important to have the scientific facts.
Marianna