Really appreciate all the shared stories. Doing my best to do all the research I can without getting wrapped up in the anxiety stages if I spend a few hours browsing the fb group or similar. I can see why scheduling the surgery would have a sense of relief as there's so much unknown in terms of next steps right now. It is really nice to have a group around this who understands, looking into support groups in my area as well.
Did you decide on a treatment plan? I also had a 2 cm AN and I opted for radiation. Much less anxiety inducing than neurosurgery, IMHO. I had had hearing loss for 10 years before diagnosis, which, like you, I had chalked up to my concert-going habits. I'm about 6 months out from my treatment, with no significant change in symptoms, knock on wood.
I hope your inital anxiety has been somewhat aliviated with information. Knowlege really is power!