I've actually experienced mild headaches after sex a few times, especially when I was stressed or recovering from illness, but nothing as intense as what you're describing. It always freaked me out, but for me, drinking water and lying down in a dark room usually helped. Diarrhea-related headaches are something I had post-gastrobug, probably from dehydration, but never both together or as severe as you mention.

I had a translab surgery in October of 2023(3cm tumor).  Then I went through Gamma Knife in April 2024 for the residual tumor.  The tumor is starting to grow and it is causing symptoms (currently it is 1.2x1.1x1.2).  I have have been told to do a second surgery.  I am curious about those of you that had a second surgery.  What was the recovery like? easier? harder? They are debating between a repeat translab vs a retrosigmoid/parial craniotomy.  Any advice would be great! Thanks everyone! Keep fighting!

Hi all! Hopefully people still lurk on this thread...

I am recently diagnosed - 2.5x2.6x3.4cm AN on the right side. I am Active-Duty Air Force and looking for some advice for dealing with Tricare and MTF's.

I was told by my case manager that I could get a referral to a civilian provider, however I would not receive any travel pay unless I followed a few steps which basically amount to:
1) Get a referral to an MTF, which would probably be Balboa or Walter Reed?
2) If the MTF cannot treat, get referral to providers in the local area
3) If local providers cannot treat, get referral to the closest non-local provider that can provide adequate care (probably not the place I want to go).

So I know somewhere in that chain of events that must happen, people are going to say they can provide the treatment - which is probably technically true, but I don't want someone who does this like once a year working on me. Does anyone have experience dealing with Tricare or MTF's to throw the "BS" flag?.

I can of course always just get the referral to a civilian provider of my choice, but I would like to keep the door open to getting paid to travel if possible...

FWIW I am in Las Vegas, so relatively close to UCSD, UCLA, Stanford, Mayo etc

I fully understand your hesitation to do anything, and the decision is totally yours, but that being said, my opinion would be to go out of watch and wait and get something done.   It is growing and one thing for sure is that the bigger it gets, the more likely you are to develop additional symptoms that may or may not be permanent.  Personally, I went with the surgery.  I felt it was the right decision for me and I still do.  I am 5 months post op now and feel better than I have in years.  I'm not going to try and convince you one way or another,  just do your research and decide which option you are most comfortable with.  I wasn't comfortable with radiation, some people are.   Just remember that no matter which method you consider, the doctors are going to warn you of the possible worst case scenarios.  But the chances of you being in that category with a small tumor are very slim.  By the way, I am 56 so I am not a young person, but I am physically active.  If you do lean towards the surgery, being physically active is a huge advantage in your recovery. 

Very happy for your progress Waleed!!