..."we all learn to deal with what ever happens." Wise words. You said you will be glad to get this behind you...I suppose you mean the treatment. My sermon today is about attitude. I am 61 years old and always imagined I would be healthy, never run out of energy, always have brown hair, etc...but "stuff happens." I am the healthiest man you ever met, but in an 8 month period I had a stroke, heart surgery and an AN. My life was turned up side down...and I will never "get this behind me." But how do you survive these major changes in your life? Go back to your "deal with ever happens," and you will live a wonderful life.
Any treatment you get will have some impact on the balance of your life. It is probably fair to say that MOST of here have some disability from being treated, but after being on this site for almost a year, I can tell from reading the posts, who is happy in their life, and who have accepted their outcome as a burden. None of did anything, or forgot to do something, that caused us to get a tumor. It was just one of the cards we got dealt. I read about people running marathons, ridding horses, having more children, improving their lives...and some go into their rooms and cry. Your post has inspired me today. I hope you have a successful treatment, and "learn to deal with ever happens." Life is a good thing...don't waste it! I'm gonna go hug my wife!