KPM ~
Hi, and welcome to the ANA website discussion forums.
Unfortunately, I can't offer you a personal retrosigmoid/hearing preservation story but I can tell you that being SSD is a handicap but not a disability...at least for me.
I underwent retrosigmoid approach AN debulking surgery but only because my neurosurgeon thought this was his best approach at the tumor, which was quite large. I had begun losing hearing in my left ear for some time but procrastinated consulting a doctor about it, blithely attributing the unilateral hearing loss to 'age' (I was in my 50's) and my lengthy career as a radio broadcaster (wearing tight-fitting earphones blasting loud sounds, for hours). By the time I saw a doctor, had an MRI scan and was diagnosed as having an acoustic neuroma, my hearing in the affected ear was gone. I knew the 'odds' of preserving hearing with 'retro' surgery was approximately 40% but I wasn't too concerned because over the years , as my hearing had slowly but surely diminished, then eventually disappeared, I had learned to adjust to being SSD. Post-op, my hearing in the affected ear did not return, although my neurosurgeon said there was a very slight chance it might improve somewhat. It didn't. So, you probably have a four-out-of-ten chance of 'saving' your hearing with retrosigmoid approach surgery. Well worth the chance, if your doctor approves. If you lose your hearing in one ear, it won't be the end of the world but it could be a nuisance and even an impediment, depending on your work and lifestyle. If so, as Jan counseled, the BAHA is always an alternative.
Jim