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My beloved friend has passed.
« on: December 28, 2010, 10:54:34 pm »
I just want to let all of you know my beloved friend Susie passed yesterday at 9:40 am.  Many will remember I have mentioned her in my postings.  She fought a long courageous battle with lung cancer.  She had an infectious smile and contagious laughter.  She brightened every corner of my life.  My eldest son and her only son have been friends for almost 20 years.  I met her at my very first meet the teacher night way back in 1991.  Susie was an honourary Aunt to my sons and an extraordinary friend to me. 


My world got a little darker yesterday.
Anne Marie
Sept 8/06 Translab
Post surgical headaches, hemifacial spasms and a scar neuroma. 
Our we having fun YET!!! 
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #1 on: December 29, 2010, 05:00:34 am »
AnnMarie

Please accept our (me and the bloke) condolences for this loss. I am SOOO sorry to hear of this as I've been following the updates, sending prayers and wishes.  May there be peace in your soul knowing just how much she loved you... and you loved her and that she will be forever with you.

I am truly, truly so so very sorry for your loss.

Huggles, prayers.

oxo
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #2 on: December 29, 2010, 08:01:35 am »
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I am so sorry for your loss. I have not had to go thru that loss of a kindred spirit & so I can only imagine how you must feel. Thank you for sharing with us here so that we can cover you & her family in prayers. I pray that the Lord wraps Hos arms around you & you are able to feel His comforting presence in your time of grief.

K
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #3 on: December 29, 2010, 08:23:35 am »
Oh, Anne Marie, very sorry to hear this...so sad...I can feel the heartbreak...

Hugs,

Cindy
rt side 1.5 cm - Translab on 11/07/08 Dr. Friedman & Dr. Schwartz of House Ear Institute,
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #4 on: December 29, 2010, 08:47:25 am »
Anne Marie -

I'm so sorry.

You were blessed to have such a wonderful friend in your life.

Kisses and prayers to you, your son, and Susie's family.

Jan
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #5 on: December 29, 2010, 08:51:49 am »
Anne Marie,

I am so saddened by your loss. I know this is a hard time, but try to focus on all your wonderful memories. She lives on in your heart and in your mind.
Retrosigmoid 9/24/09
AN 2.4+ cm left side
Mount Sinai Hospital, NYC (Dr. Bederson and Dr. Choe)
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #6 on: December 29, 2010, 09:04:07 am »
It is so hard to let go of the ones we love.  My prayer for peace and comfort goes up for you today.
Priscilla
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Diagnosed  left AN 8/07/08, 1.9 CM
Surgery 12/10/08 at Methodist Hospital w/Vrabec and Trask for what turned out to be a cpa meningioma.

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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #7 on: December 29, 2010, 09:35:59 am »
My most sincere condolences to you, and all of those that had the honor of having Susie in their life. My families prayers are with you. 
4cm C1  16hrs                 Barrows, Jan 06      NF2
3.5 cm  Right AN retro       Barrows, Oct 06   
Cranial Plate removal           UNM Nov 07
LP                                   Barrows  Jan,2011
Wound revision                 Barrows Feb, 2011
5mm left middle Fossa,  (2) 2mm spine w&w

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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #8 on: December 29, 2010, 10:28:38 am »
Anne Marie:

I hope that the happy memories of your friend will help you find compfort during this time of grief.

Syl
1.5cm AN rt side; Retrosig June 16, 2008; preserved facial and hearing nerves;
FINALLY FREE OF CHRONIC HEADACHES 4.5 years post-op!!!!!!!
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #9 on: December 29, 2010, 10:43:02 am »
Anne Marie .....

Many thoughts and prayers as you walk through this grieving time for a very special friend.

Clarice
Right MVD for trigeminal neuralgia, 1994, Pittsburgh, PA
Left retrosigmoid 2.6 cm AN removal, February, 2008, Duke U
Tumor regrew to 1.3 cm in February, 2011
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Cheryl R

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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #10 on: December 29, 2010, 11:01:53 am »
Anne Marie,        My sympathy to you for the loss of a dear friend.     Friends keep us going some days and can be as important as family.           Peace be to you and her family,                      Cheryl R
                   
Right mid fossa 11-01-01
  left tumor found 5-03,so have NF2
  trans lab for right facial nerve tumor
  with nerve graft 3-23-06
   CSF leak revision surgery 4-07-06
   left mid fossa 4-17-08
   near deaf on left before surgery
   with hearing much improved .
    Univ of Iowa for all care

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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #11 on: December 29, 2010, 02:48:27 pm »
I am sorry you have lost a dear friend ... and as cheryl said , many times friends are as important as family ..
prayers to both your family and hers 
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Translab July 2 ,2007
3.2cm x 2.75cm x 3.3cm @ time of surgery

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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #12 on: December 29, 2010, 10:26:22 pm »
I am so sorry, too, Anne Marie. It is so sad to lose a friend that is like family.

Keri
1.5 left side; hearing loss; translab scheduled for 1/29/09 at Univ of MD at Baltimore
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Re: My beloved friend has passed.
« Reply #13 on: January 07, 2011, 02:41:04 pm »
Anne Marie ~

I believe I posted to this thread back on December 28th or 29th but it was 'lost' in the website transition.  Allow me to, once again, offer my condolences on the loss of your friend, Susie - and know that my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jim
4.5 cm AN diagnosed 5/06.  Retrosigmoid surgery 6/06.  Follow-up FSR completed 10/06.  Tumor shrinkage & necrosis noted on last MRI.  Life is good. 

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