James -
glad to hear things are getting better for you - and I'm glad one of our resident nurses, Lori, could give you advice on Clobetasol.
Jean -
I am a confirmed BAHA wearer; absolutely LOVE mine and highly recommend it to everyone I know who is SSD.
Pros include, not having to say "what?" repeatedly; not having to position yourself in a room or at a table where you are trying to get everyone on your "good" side; not having to turn your body in order to hear someone on your "good" side; not having anything in your ear; and little or no upkeep. I do nothing but wash my BAHA site when I shampoo.
Cons include, no directionality (which is normal with hearing devices), and not hearing like you used to before you were SSD (another normal with hearing devices).
The surgery is quick, done on an outpatient basis, and you can even have it with local anesthesia if you want (I did, and it isn't nearly as grisly as it sounds). The recovery in most cases is fast, painless, and without complications.
In my book it's well worth it and I've never regretted having the surgery.
If you haven't already, try the demo in your doc's office. I think you'll be impressed.
Good luck, and don't hesitate to ask us any questions,
Jan