Hi Rick,
I'm following your thread again. With my surgery 1 week after yours at the HEI I am eager to read the responses you receive.
While I obviously have this experience facing me, I will share with you a few tips I have been getting from previous AN surgery patients.
One of my new AN friends who went to the HEI said it's helpful to have your spouse or someone close to you go to as much of the pre-op stuff with you as possible as another set of ears to process the information and help ask questions during this time of high anxiety. I also was told that having someone take notes during any consultations with the Drs. pre-op, during updates of the surgery and post-op is really helpful to share with the patient at a later time when thinking is a bit more clear. I have my mother-in-law on stand by for this. She loves journaling and has pen/paper ready to go for me. She is pleased to have this responsibility. Not only does it make me feel better to know someone will help keep track of this, but it also gives her a sense of being able to help me with something when we all feel rather helpless in this situation.
One bit of advice I have been given for post-op is to take pjs/clothes that you do not have to pull over your head. Items that button or zip will be much easier than pulling things on/off over your head.
Another bit of advice I had, this too is a post-op, is to swallow the pride and get a wheelchair at the airport. With all the people, luggage, gates, etc...it is likely to be exhausting and if balance is any issue at all this may be a welcomed chariot.
Glad to read that you are taking some time for fun on the weekend. Enjoy! I am meeting with my Regional Director tomorrow for some handing-off of the baton. I hope to take most of next week off to get things ready at home and relax a bit before we fly out.
Wishing you all the best, and keeping you in my prayers.
Kathy