From what I have seen on the forum, patients who have full hearing before surgery and end up SSD usually have a hard time adjusting. This is understandable, because it such a shock for the brain.
I experienced gradual hearing loss over the course of a year. By the time of surgery, I had no useful hearing left (could still hear some tones though). I ended up SSD, but I can honestly say that it didn't bother me at all. I think I had already adjusted. I actually got rid of the "distorted" hearing feeling that I had before, which I found very bothersome. I teach large university classes, and I am frequently in committee meetings. The only time SSD bothers me is when someone tries to talk directly in my ear. My kids know not to do this
Bottom line, as with everything AN related, everyone is different. You can't really predict how you will feel afterwards. If you find that you can't cope with SSD, there are some very good options, as others have mentioned.
Marianna ~
Thank you for that astute observation.
Like you (
and other AN patients) my hearing in the AN-affected ear had been compromised to the point of becoming effectively useless prior to my AN diagnosis and surgery. So, by the time of my surgery (
Retrosigmoid) I had already adjusted (
quite well) to being SSD. Hence, I didn't have a big problem with unilateral hearing. I will admit that at times I have to ask someone to repeat themselves or I simply don't hear something being said (
this usually occurs in a noisy environment). However, this happens infrequently and if I need to be sure of what was said, I simply ask the person to repeat. My family is well aware of my hearing deficiency and like me, have adapted accordingly.
I agree that if one goes into AN surgery with perfect or even 'usable' hearing and comes out SSD, they'll have a big adjustment to make. Those of us who go in to AN surgery SSD and come out the same way, have no adjustment to make because we've already adapted. That is why folks like
Jan couldn't tolerate the sudden loss of bi-lateral hearing, were grateful to obtain a BAHA and remain happy to have it. That is perfectly logical and I'm glad the BAHA exists for those who need it. Who knows? I may join them some day. Until such time, I'm content to adjust and adapt as necessary and to date, that has worked out quite well for me, as it apparently has for you (
and others, I know). Another example of why AN experiences are almost never identical.
Jim