Welcome Anabchavez50,,
It is a very scary diagnosis for sure but there is a lot of information on the home page of the ANA. I encourage you to visit there ( ANAUSA.ORG) and there is an info packet you can get sent to you also,, it is all VERY helpful.
I would also encourage you to start a new thread of your own as this one is pretty old. You will most probably get more advice from folks if the thread is about a " newbie " looking for advice. Some folks may not read this thread if not interested in the topic. Just my thoughts ,,
Relax and research on here through the various topics and I'm sure a lot of your questions will be answered,, we are all here to help. Then speak to your doctor about the next step for your situation. You have a fairly large tumor already and the symptoms you are experiencing and the location of the tumor will dictate your choices.
Let us know how we can help,,,,
Peace,,
Jane