Hi RandomWalk,
Welcome to ANA, I'm sorry you have one, but the good news is there are so many options to chose from today, and I suggest to find out what's best for you. I chose surgery, the Middle Fossa approach which is above the ear. I was told, this operation doesn't come without some risks, as the brain needs to be retracted. However, the brain is covered in a protective covering called duramatter which means brain tissue is never touched. I chose this procedure because my ENT doctor said it gave me the best chance for hearing preservation along with facial muscle preservation. I am 16 months post op and my ear works pretty good, my face has a wonderful smile etc. I hope this helps, and remember that no matter how much advice you might receive, it's going to have to be your decision to make, so learn as much as you can.
God Bless