Hey, I love my BAHA (Ponto Pro). However, it is because it makes meetings and small groups better - much better. Unfortunately, it doesn't help every situation. Loud, chaotic places, for me, aren't any better with it than without it. It also doesn't really help with whispers either.
For awhile I use closed captioning post-surgery and then eventually adjusted...especially once the grandelves and their parents moved out of the house. Much quieter then.
The surgery was a breeze for me, and I had no real difficulties other than a bad headache two days later. I have also had no issues with my implant or the skin around it. Some folks have had difficulty.
Will it truly be helpful? I certainly can't tell you that. I can suggest you talk with your ENT and see if you can try a BAHA with the head clamp (for want of a better term and I can't remember what it is...I have a brain tumor, sorry
). When I tried one on, I was sold.
To be fair, not everyone has found them helpful, or have had a good experience. It seems though that the majority of folks on this site have had a good experience.
I hope this is helpful.
-tod