Hi, Anne ~
My response to your questions follows:
1. Is there anything you wish you had packed for the hospital or took that you found to be of help? I've read chapstick & a neck pillow were handy to have around.
I suggest that you don't 'over-pack'. This is not a vacation and the hospital isn't a resort. Your own PJ's and slippers along with the pillow are usually a good choice. I never needed Chapstick but many say they did, so it might be prudent to have some with you.
2. I have a 3 hour drive back home when I'm discharged. Was motion sickness an issue? Any tips on dealing with that & has anyone tried the motion sickness bands worn on the wrists?
My wife drove on the trip home from the hospital and I never experienced motion sickness so I can't offer any advice on that question.
3. I know this question has many variables but how soon were you able to begin active exercise? Walking is emphasized as part of recovery but how soon did you feel up to it? When were you able to begin more active exercise like running, tennis or biking?
As Mark Twain once wrote, 'I don't exercise because I see no benefit in being tired' So, again, I can't offer much information on this question. I did do a lot of walking beginning about 10 days after my discharge from the hospital. No running, biking or tennis. Others have, so I'm sure they'll respond.
There will be a lot to deal with post surgery & I'm o.k. about being SSD, I can handle that. I'm more concerned about the impact this will have on my lifestyle from a physical aspect, I feel that will be much harder for me to accept.
Due to procrastination, I lost my unilateral hearing some years prior to my AN diagnosis, surgery and radiation - so I had time to adjust to it. Being SSD definitely has an impact on your lifestyle but how it would relate on a physical basis I cannot say. Although I'm active, I don't engage in specific sports and/or exercises. However, some of our members have returned to a very physically active lifestyle, including skiing, so life after AN surgery can be relatively normal. A lot depends on your surgery outcome (lack of complications), age, physical health and personal motivation.
Jim