First of all - THANK YOU all for your replies. It is a different feeling to read replies from the people who are or were in my shoes. Thank you once again.
Yes, I have decided to go for a surgery as just couldn't stand the feeling of having something in my head for next 30-50 years (whatever God has written for me). I am going with HEI with Dr. Schwartz and Dr. Slattery. Read so much about St. Vincent's and HEI that they became my first choice. My second preference with the doctor and the hospital was Swedish in Seattle.
Leaving for surgery tomorrow and the big day is this Thursday the Jan 30th. Still confuse about Middle Fossa or Translab but will see doctor on 29th and take their suggestions/help on taking this decision.
I saw 6 different hospitals and doctors on the West coast:
1. Swedish, Seattle. Dr. Douglas D. Backous was fantastic suggested for surgery. Middle Fossa.
2. Palo Alto Medical Foundation, Palo Alto, CA - Radiosurgery.
3. HEI - Dr. Slattery. Talked to Dr. Marc Schwartz over the phone. Both suggested for surgery. Asked me to get VBN (I think) and ABR test and from tests result they are leaning more towards Translabyrinthine approach.
4. UCSF - Dr. Philip Theodosopoulos, was leaning towards radiosurgery.
5. UW - Surgery, Translab
6. Stanford - Dr Chang. Radiosurgery but if I want he was okay to do surgery too and would have preferred Middle Fossa.
Loved Swedish and HEI. Wouldn't have gone with rest of the 4 as didn't find that comfort in them to give me inner assurance but I am sure they all are fantastic as well. Just I did not feel comfortable. Hospital wise, staff wise hands down with Swedish but HEI has more experience with this kind of surgeries, they do hundreds of these.
It is very preliminary but hated the financial policies of HEI. I don't like to give my SSN to hospitals and have damn good insurance through my employer but they literally forced me to give SSN during my initial visit. I got a call from them last week and they told me that they checked with my insurance and have a small amount of deductible to meet for this year and $1000 deposit which I have to pay before the surgery. My insurance has already confirmed with them about taking care of all my expenses and everything but then also HEI wants me to make the deposit and meet the deductible and can't wait to see how much insurance covers. I even told them that because I got so many pre-surgery lab tests and ABR and VBN tests done, I would meet the deductible so I am okay to make the deposit of $1000 but wait for deductible as when they will file my insurance everything should be approved by insurance. If they would have agreed to this then I will not have to go back & forth with them later on to get refund which I paid as deductible. I guess, I have to go back and forth with them in a few months to get my few hundreds back from them.
It is already hassle to go through all the surgery and recovery that you have to be on the call with them to get refund. They are getting 100s of thousands of dollars from my insurance but want to make sure I don't take the deductible amount and run away when they have my SSN with them.
Anyway, I will definitely post my post-surgery review, comments, update for all of you. Thanks and please keep me in your prayers
Regards,
Amit