You need a good MRI with contrast. This is one of the first steps to diagnosing what you have. From there get a copy of your MRI on a CD disk and make copies that can be given to different doctors who are experienced with the diagnosis. If you haven't gotten one you need it. Get someone to order this for you and then get a copy from the place that did it along with the radiologist report.
If you have an acoustic neuroma (AN) here is a decision tree I mentioned in earlier post:
http://www.anausa.org/index.php/overview/acoustic-neuroma-decision-treeIf you have an AN you can research this web for providers who can help you locally or out of state. Some providers will do a free over the phone consultation if you send them copies of your MRI and other tests. Here are two examples:
http://www.houseearclinic.com/consultation/acousticneuromahttp://keckmedicine.adam.com/content.aspx?productId=117&pid=1&gid=000778There are other providers too who will do this. If you have PPO insurance (not an HMO) you are more easily to refer yourself to AN specialists and not wait for your local doctor to make the contact. If a doctor won't see you without a referral find another doctor (assuming you have records to justify seeing the specialist). But it will help you if you have a MRI and diagnosis (also having hearing tests results, etc.) to open the door to actually seeing a specialist who deals with your problem/symptoms.
Keep us informed and be assertive. Don't get depressed. If you have an AN it is not a death warrent. These are treatable. There is life at the end of treatment. I know because I had a craniotomy and tumor removed and am a testament to doing my own research, own referral (even when 3 doctors and 2 ENT's refused to order an MRI for me!). Believe it or no it was an Advance Nurse Registered Practitioner who ordered my MRI (not an MD becasue the local MD's would not listen to me)! After that I learned I had an AN; I learned it was treatable; I referred myself; spent months talking/e-mail to specialists; I read a lot of medical papers; and learned about my anatomy (my office walls have pictures still up) and treatment options; I elected surgery; I am working now! Took my own health care and made my decisions for it - It is empowering! So don't get down! Get up! I know you have a lot to live for and we are rooting for you! -ok? Keep us informed and don't let no one stand in your way to take care of yourself- Craig