I am telling you my experience, not making a recommendation. I looked at the 3 choices, radiation, surgery, watch and wait. I looked at my condition. 85% hearing loss, tinnitus, vertigo, facial nerve still working. My AN was about the size of an almond, pressing against my brain stem.
My decision was to have surgery. My doc said I would loose all of the hearing in my AN ear regardless of my decision. He said he could save my facial nerve, and THAT was my most important consideration. I was afraid if I went on watch and wait, the tumor might attack my facial nerve. I had translab surgery and my facial nerve was preserved.
Now, all of these tumors are different. Perhaps mine was not too involved in my facial nerve. Maybe I just lucked out. When you talk to your doctor, ask about your facial nerves. I am perfectly fine being SSD. It is not bad at all. Facial paralysis is a big deal. Personally I would risk the hearing in one ear to save my facial nerves.
Do you have a private health plan or are you on government health? Do you have a choice to get several consultations? Can you pick your doctor?
By the way, welcome. I used this site 4 years ago to help me make my decisions, and there are no words that can describe the relief I got from hearing others experiences.
James