Also dealing with recent AN diagnosis, live near Wilmington, DE. I have almost no hearing loss in AN ear. Faint tinnitus, slight balance issues, some faint facial numbness. My AN was an incidental/suspicious finding on a CAT scan for something else, then confirmed by contrasted MRI.
I had consults with with Penn (Bigelow/Lee (recommended retrosig)), Jefferson (Wilcox/Evans/Andrews (willing to watch and wait or radio (Andrews), surgical recommendation leaned toward retrosig) and Hopkins (Francis/Tamargo (strong retrogis recommendation)). Also phone consults with House (wilkinson/schwarz).
Not easy, after much deliberation (including a lot of input/research by my wife), my preference ended up House > Hopkins=Jefferson > Penn.
I have chosen surgery at House (Slattery/Schwarz) and am scheduled for translab in Oct.
When you say "House is out of network", are you sure all aspects of a procedure (i.e., charges/CPT codes) at House would be out of network? My wife and I spent a bit of time with House staff and my insurance (Aetna "choice POS II") staff discussing out in-network and out-of-network aspects of this procedure. In the end, one of my House surgeons (Schwarz) is out of network, the other (Slattery) is in-network as is all other aspects of the procedure (St. Vincents, etc.). Will be more expensive than if all aspects were in-network, but worth it, in our opinion.
Take care, KP