By now you may be getting close to surgery, Warr76, and if you're anything like me, nervous wouldn't half describe it!
Like Pharm925 (hi there!) and littleowl, I had middle fossa surgery on May 13th of this year, so I'm now exactly six months post-op. If my doctors and physical therapist asked me today how close to 100% I feel I am, I'd say 95%. Dr Delashaw and Dr Bachous at Swedish Medical did a superb job: I have retained almost all hearing in my right ear, only tailing off a little in the high end; the facial issues wore off within four to six weeks (and they were no big deal). True dizziness didn't last long -- my blurred vision just 'snapped back' on the second day in ICU, and the icky feeling pretty much went away once the took the lumbar drain out. I didn't go straight home from the hospital, but stayed in a hotel around the corner from our house for five nights, mostly because our cats shed like mad and I feared infection until the incision pretty well healed over. (Bless those hotel maids and daily fresh pillowcases!)
I worked hard at the balance exercises all summer, and it made a huge difference. I was back at work part-time about a month after surgery, driving confidently at six weeks, working in my garden (no heavy lifting) in July, all the while taking long walks with lots of head-swings and generally trying to tone myself up. We had arranged to video a family wedding in the first weekend of August -- and it went off just fine. Even bigger deal was a three-week video/photo shoot in England and Scotland around Labor Day -- and I was able to climb walls, focus the camera, and generally dash around, even driving long long days. Yes I was pretty darn tired by the end of it but I bet I would have been worn out anyway! (I'm 57, BTW.)
I'm now doing intensive weight training to build up muscle mass, and try forcing myself out in the rainy PacNW weather to keep up the walking. I really do believe this is a use-it-or-lose-it proposition. When I slacked off with a bad headcold for a couple of weeks, I could tell I was less stable in the dark...
Best of luck to you, and be sure to check in and let us know how everything went!
Laura