hi all
I was diagnosed about a year and a half ago with a small AN 3x5 mm my doctor has recommended surgery based on my age (34), and the fact that my hearing is intact for the most part, also I would like to start a family so that is a factor as well. I'm going to see another dr for a second opinion.
Any advice?
Thank you
Your hearing is intact now, it might not be after surgery. In hindsight, I got my tumor about your age (38) and didn't find out about it until last year (47). I base this on looking back at symptoms over the years. So, I had my tumor for nearly a decade and "waited" without the watching. Mine is 1cm and I'm in no hurry to get my head cut open or irradiated. I am not against such procedures for people who have larger tumors. Eventually, I will probably need one or the other myself. But, as for now, I am no hurry and will get MRI's and wait.
There is a common belief that getting treatment somehow "fixes" symptoms. While this can happen, that is not the way this works. The only thing treatment "fixes" is arresting or removing the tumor. Symptoms can get worse regardless. This is not like a torn tendon in your elbow, once they stitch it back together things will be repaired and work properly.
Your balance function will deteriorate and cease to function in that ear, period, no matter what you do. This is not a big deal so don't sweat it one way or the other. Many, many people loose their hearing. Some keep it, some keep a bit of it but not so it is of much use to them, and some lose it a few years later even after it all seems to be okay. Some people come out of treatment with worse symptoms than they had going in and they will always be worse off symptom-wise.
The one things that treatment will do, and it's a big one, is stop the tumor from impinging on you brain and threatening your life. At your tumor size, it will take a dozen yers or more before you have to worry about that and you'll be getting MRI's every year or better. It's not like this thing is going to sneak up on you in the middle of the night and take you out.
Also, consider how much better techniques might be in ten years. Maybe they'll be the same, maybe they'll have some type of modified DNA that they can inject into the tumor through a narrow opening that will kill it without beating the crap out of all the nerves around it. They are already doing this successfully with other types of brain tumors.
At Duke, they successfully killed a tumor in the middle of a young boy's brain with such an injection. The procedure took FIFTEEN MINUTES! They simply bore a small hole in his skull, inserted the needle into his brain into the tumor, and injected some type of modified cells that killed the tumor. The alternative was digging their way into his brain and taking it out. While I realize that this situation is very much different, think about all of the things we are doing now that were impossible or unlikely ten years ago.