Hi sarahwadsworth and welcome to this forum .....
While no one wants to hear the diagnosis of an acoustic neuroma, you have come to a good place for support and caring.
I hope while you are waiting for your referral, you will send for the free ANA materials. See:
https://www.anausa.org/contact-us These materials contain a wealth of accurate information. Also, if you have not already done so, check out all of the resources on the ANA page. (anausa.org)
Regarding hearing loss with an AN, there is a huge variety of symptoms/scenarios with AN patients. In my case, I experienced sudden hearing loss. I woke up one morning feeling like I had been up in an airplane or high altitude in one ear only. My usual tricks to clear it did nothing so I finally went to an ENT and as they say "the rest is history."
As for your hearing returning, while possible, it most likely will not. Sometimes following treatment, there is swelling that can temporarily cause additional hearing loss.
Usually bilateral hearing loss is not an indicator of ANs. Only an MRI (best with contrast) or CT (less accurate) scan can determine whether there is an AN. Very small ANs can be missed if an MRI with contrast is not done.
As for NF2, typically genetic testing is not done unless a patient has more than one AN or additional tumors on the spine.
Hope that helps. Many thoughts and prayers.
Clarice