I sort of wish this forum had a way to advise you when someone has replied to your post.... I didn't see them last time I looked, so sorry for delayed response.
@nebluebells, you have been much on my mind. Praying your surgery went well and hoping to hear from you soon.
@caryawilson, I saw dr. Tamargo at Hopkins and I have nothing good to say about it. Unfortunately we found him to be insulting, rude and definitely planning to do additional surgeries for facial nerve damage. Time will tell if I end up with it, but he was assuring us of it... So much so, that I actually felt it necessary to ask him if he would try to save the nerve or damage to it! I understand that it is not his fault that I have this tumor and to some extent he is just the bearer of bad news, but he gave no hope at all of any potential positive outcomes, except to remove the tumor. All but guaranteed, hearing gone and count on additional surgeries, although he does not do trans lab approach. He insisted that I already knew I had/have facial nerve damage, because I look in the mirror every day. I assure you, I know no such thing. I have tingling in my face, but so far as I can tell, no drooping and control of muscles. It was just too much....
We had already consulted with Dr. Schwartz at House, as well, so I called them again. Dr. Brackmann actually and asked their opinion of Tamargo's opinion. They respectfully disagree about assurance of facial nerve damage. They feel more optimistic that they would not have to destroy it and that my tingling is caused by the trigenimial nerve. There is a concern about having to leave tumor behind here again to protect the nerve, but if they cannot protect the nerve they can repair it during the same surgery....
So as is typical I guess there are no guarantees anywhere you go for this thing, except the guarantee of losing my hearing in the AN ear. I know this is hard for everyone, but I just don't have normal/good hearing in my other ear and I am having such a hard time accepting this.
So, we have decided to go to House Clinic for surgery. I actually have surgery scheduled for May 23. There was a cancellation in the schedule, so jumped inTo it. Cary, I am glad all things worked out well for you with your surgery and treatments at Hopkins. I/we just needed more hope going into our decision.
@CherylR - I am saddened to say, that I may be one of the lucky few as well. Docs at House (&cardiologist) all see something in my right ear as well. Very small right now, less than 3mm and not certain, but they advise a spinal mri as well. I have tried my best to worry about it now, but 4 different docs assure me, it doesn't change the way they treat the big one! And they tell me not to worry about it for now. Ha!
Anyway thx for sharing about the tinnitus not changing much. That is hopeful and encouraging. And in this place, hopeful and encouraging is a real gift. I cannot now imagine having surgery more than once on one ear, or having it in both ears... but thanks to this forum and those who are willing to share their stories here, I can "see" that even when the bad things happen, there are many options to help us all go on living somewhat normal and happy lives. And that also gives me hope! Now if I can just get to accepting/believing that there will be a new normal and happy in my life too....
Lisa