Hi didyb,
I am so sorry you are going through this. How hard.
I live in LA and visited House for a consultation and met with Dr. Slattery. I have heard he is among the doctors who do free consults over the phone. He is excellent, kind, and very experienced. Another doctor you might consider reaching out to (who also do free consults) are those as UCSD. Dr Friedman and Dr. Schwartz (I spoke with them, too) are also very skilled and knowledgable. I understand that Dr. Schwartz in particular is known for his skill in salvage surgery. But perhaps both are. All I know is that all three are great, and though your doctor is wonderful too, it doesn't hurt to ask around. When I got my consults with Dr. Friedman and Dr. Schwartz, I did so by emailing Dr. Friedman's patient navigator, Kris Siwek - her email is: ksiwek@ucsd.edu. She responded very quickly, as did both Dr. Friedman and Dr. Schwartz. I don't have Dr. Slattery's email handy, but if you'd like it I can try and dig that up as well. Another doctor is my own - Dr. Chang. Though his name comes up a lot in reference to CyberKnife, he also does a lot of operations on ANs, and some have been salvages as well. I would imagine his familiarity with radiation and surgery come in handy. Best of luck!