Hi Bob, I hear ya fella !!!
I've got the 'mouth droop' too - real attractive, huh?
I'm going for acupuncture (As I've said, I'll try anything) - been going now maybe 1 1/2 months, twice a week, & I THINK it's put a halt on the droop (or maybe this is all the droop I would have gotten, don't know). Anyway, I think it helps, gonna keep doing it till I go for repeat facial EMG in Jan.
Don't think you're over reacting at all - people do stare at me at work, (I've gotten use to it). I work in a hospital, so lots of strangers walking by. The people I work with are getting use to the appearance, I went back to work 2 months post op, 1 month after the gold weight. I HAD to have the gold weight & lateral tarsal strip done, before that my eye was WIDE OPEN, couldn't move the upper lid without it, I know I wouldn't have been able to go to work without it done, the eye burned too much before (& the $$$ was dwindeling quickly )
I'd ask the ENT (if you haven't already), what he/she thinks the chances are of the facial nerve regenerating. It DOES take time, be patient.
You're only 3 months out, I'd expect your going to have fatigue for awhile, the balance issues add to the matter. I'm almost 6 months out & still tire easily, it's the balance, wipes ya out.
Best wishes on your journey, Nancy