Hi Savage:
The first surgeon that I talked to regarding my left-sided AN was a Doctor Johnston at Dartmouth-Hitchcock Hospital in Lebanon, NH in April, 2005. I was 58, very healthy, and had a 1.5 cm tumor with only diminished hearing as a symptom. I was working in accounting 40 hours/week at the time. He told me that considering what my work was, I would have to be out of work for at least two months and then only back to work part-time for a month. He also stated that if my job was physical it would probably be six months and if I were a pilot it would be at least a year even without complications! I did not have my surgery at Dartmouth - I had it at MGH in Boston and my surgeons left it up to me as to when I could return to work after my six week checkup - definitely could not return before then. ( I had a 10 hour sub-occipital surgery with no real complications.) When I returned to work, I was unusually very tired for at least six months. I also have a metallic taste in my mouth, but it has gradually gotten less noticeable. Some foods still taste strange.
I think your Doctor is being unrealistic and not very fair with you. Has he/she done this surgery frequently? My doctors seemed to be very knowledgeable about how I might feel afterwards: very tired, weak, depressed etc. They were very adament about any lifting, cough and straining for at least six weeks. Your job sounds very physical and you had two surgeries with complications - your doctor is not impressing me, and I feel concerned for you. Please be persistent with your physician or possibly try for a second opinion???
Dotti