Hey Mauri-sorry to meet you under these circumstances!
I'll give you my brief history with surgeons/consultations. My situation is different than yours in that I have a 2.5 CM tumor and needed to deal with it in about a 6 month time frame.
First Guy told me he would debulk the tumor and then treat the remaining amount with Gamma Knife to preserve my facial nerve. Complete hearing loss on left side (where tumor is).
Second Guy told me to do only surgery- he also was recommending translab. Complete Hearing Loss for left ear.
Third Guy told me retrosigmoid in that I had a 5-10 percent chance of preserving my hearing and that's what he wanted to go for.
Fourth Guy told me to do cyber knife (radiation completely) as I had no balance issues, and that I still had good speech discrimination despite my hearing loss. But I could preserve what hearing I had.
I chose cyberknife- less invasive, and I can tell you 7 months out, my hearing is almost the same.
My understanding is retrosigmoid is used to preserve hearing- if the neurosurgeon is stating that you are going to lose your hearing, why go through the hassle of surgery?
I was always biased towards radiation, but I found that the ENT industry as a whole is biased towards surgery and after three times being told surgery, I also was resigned to the fact. If you want radiation, you need to fight for it and find the right doctor who you feel comfortable with. I really liked the treatment with Chang @ Stanford (4th guy) in that he was unbiased toward either surgery or radiation. He was very specific in that if I had balance issues, he also would have opted for surgery versus radiation. I was lucky in that I had no balance issues so I opted for cyberknife treatment and have been happy. I was not looking forward to recovering from surgery.
I will always be grateful to Mark, Bruce and Phyl for giving me the extra push to seek out radiation. And you have to go to the "radiation people directly"- rather than going through the ENT- that is unless they have been trained in the 90's. Dr. Chang explained that students in the 90's were taught to use both radiation and surgery- while older students (80's and 70's were only taught surgery)- hence the bias.
Hope this is helpful- (not so brief huh
)- take care, good luck- Annie