Hi Larry,
Bless your heart for taking such good care of your wife & joining us here in the discussion forum.
You don't mention what meds your wife is taking, but sometimes meds have side-effects, and many times they can be unpleasant ones. For a while I was taking Pamelor to help relief my headaches. One of the many possible side-effects of this drug is dizziness. Although a wonki-head/dizziness/light-headedness has been one of my big AN-related issues, the drug only made it worse. Pamelor made everything spin if I got up too fast. The spinning used to happen before my surgery, not after. It started up again when I started taking Pamelor.
As I mentioned above, the wonki-head has been one of my biggest AN issues. With time, & plenty of effort on my part, this has subsided. I used to feel this way all the time. When I got tired it felt even worse.
I still get the wonki-head, but I do have a clear head most of the time. I don't do the exercises the therapist recommended, but I do my own therapy. I have tried many things to help improve the way my head feels. I get tired of one thing & try something else. However, there is one thing that I have been consistent about. I walk regularly & find that when I skip a week or more, the wonkiness increases. Exercise itself can make me wonki-headed, but without it, it only gets worse.
Even if you & your wife feel that she isn't getting better, keep in mind that this is a long recovery. At around my second anniversary, I felt that the wonkiness was much better & I was sleeping straight through the night. At the 3-year mark, I could honestly say that I felt good. I was still getting chronic headaches, but I felt so good as far as my other issues were concerned.
It wasn't until the beginning of this year that I could say that my headaches are no longer chronic. In June I will be 5 years that I had my surgery. Keep at it, it will get better.
Syl