Doug,
I did not have TN specifically but had a combination of scar pain, cluster headaches, and AN-sided pain where everything, including my face, hurt. Maybe, some of this pain actually came from the trigeminal nerve but I will never know. Your pain reallly sounds like it is TN. I wonder what the doctor will say any further! I also have to correct myself: most ANers do not have headaches nowadays, that is a huge improvement since 1988 when I had my surgery #1 that caused my headaches!
Cecile,
I had a terrible time with drugs because nothing over the counter worked but prescription ones really knocked me out. Either way I could not make it to work. My doctors ignored the pain making me feel like it is a minor problem. Since I was lucky enough to be alive (lucky, I know) and on top of that my facial nerve was fine (REALLY lucky in 1988!), I was supposed to grin and bear it. How?!!
I became expert on my types of headaches, distinguishing one from another and understanding what triggers each one. I was attempting either to prevent it or abort it ASAP before it became unmanageable. Here is what I did:
- slept at 45 degree angle
- slept no more than 7 hours a night; alarm clock went off even on weekends
- emphasized stretching during exercise, especially stretching after the weight-lifting so that the neck is not tense
- followed a routine with sleep and exercise to let the body adapt the fastest
- ACUPUNCTURE to abort a headache that lasts more than a day; excellent for pain
- avoided lying down on the AN side; God forbid I awoke up on the AN side - guaranteed pain
- most of my headaches, even minor, were accompanied by nausea and vomiting, so I used Indocin suppositories
(learned pretty late from one of the GPs I went to)
My longest headache lasted for 5 months straight when I was pregnant with my first child. The only reason I showed up for work is so that I would not be home alone and do something to myself and the baby.
I do believe that the pain diminishes as the years pass and the surgery site integrates with the rest of the body. However, I found that if I do nothing, the pain controls my life and I would lose my job if I could not make it to work. Hope anything at all works for you! If I remember anything else, I will post.
Eve