Daydreamer;
I'm a
guy and I was concerned about how much hair I would have to have shaved for my surgery, so I can't call your question silly or shallow. We all care about our appearance, even if we're not especially vain. As you can see from reading the previous posts, you won't lose much hair at all and for women, the shaved area can usually be easily concealed. My shaved area grew back quickly and my barber was able to 'camouflage' the shorter strip of hair rather easily. Within two months, it was impossible to see any difference...and I have a relatively short haircut. That being the case, you have little reason to fear having a small strip of hair cut for your surgery.
However, I agree with the ladies that if you've considered having your hair cut shorter, this would be the time to do it. The first week or so following surgery you really can't wash your hair - and it
does become yucky. Mine did...and my hair is probably a lot shorter than yours! As my experience shows, even with relatively short hair, the portion that will be shaved (and have the incision) is small and covering it will not be a problem, so not to worry.
Jim