Lacey's Daughter:
I'll just add my regrets that your mom is struggling, but her situation following AN surgery is actually not entirely unique. It's still frustrating, though. I was in the ICU for four days and nights and yet had few problems, except poor appetite the first 48 hours post-op. 'Nurse Ratchet' (my name for her) refused to leave the room until I ate something on my third day post-op. I did and was sitting up, then walking around by day four. By day five I was moved to a semi-private room, then discharged by noon because my doctor saw no reason to keep me hospitalized. By that time, I was ready to drive myself home but my wife thought better of it and I resumed my recovery as a passenger in our car, then basically a bystander at home...for about a week. The point? Food helps, even that wretched hospital food.
I trust your mom will be feeling better soon and be able to keep some food down. Not to instigate, but sneaking in a favorite, easily digestible food from 'the outside' has been known to revive hospital patient's appetites. Not that you would do this, of course. Just an observation.
Thanks for taking the time to keep us updated. Its appreciated.
Jim