Bobbibl:
Yes Life does get easier, or rather it gets back to normal. I'm almost 10 years past surgery now and have forgot most of the details. Fortunately, I kept a journal - actually writing the journal freed me from having to remember everything. And that allowed me to finally sleep (which I couldn't do right after surgery.) Anyhow, checking back in my journal, I notice that I improved a lot in the first month, some in the second month, and not much after about six months.
I wore the Cros Aids for a while - they allowed me to hear in all directions, but not to tell the direction from which the sound came. When I got to the point that I had to wear glasses, I gave up the Cros Aids - all that hardware (aid plus glasses earpiece) behind my ears was giving me a headache! My tinnitus continues, but mostly I don't notice it unless I listen for it - I think my brain just ignores it. Somewhere along the line, the pressure problem did go away. SSD does affect my enjoyment of large group events, and some folks are easier to hear in a noisy environment than are others. If you have long hair and don't wear glasses, you might try the Cros Aids.
Other than the SSD, the longest lasting after effect was the scalp tingling. I find in my journal that I calculated it would take 10 years for the nerves to regenerate. Well...ten years later I don't have any tingling ;-)
Good luck,
Rosemary