Hi Greg,
I'm also curious as to what size your tumor is. I'm also curious as to what symptoms you currently have, how bad they are, and how quickly they came on.
My Surgery is scheduled for March 5th. My Physician talked about the 3 options I had available to me, and recommended surgery and watch and wait. I have to admit, the W/W sounded good at the time, but what he said to me made a lot of sense too. Based on the location of my tumor (back against the brain stem) he said I have a better than even chance of saving useful hearing. The word useful was important to me, because some people retain some hearing, but not much word recognition. Anyway, I digress.
I heard a statistic somewhere that a large percentage (was it 40 or 60 percent? Darned memory ) of people who have had autopsy's performed are found to have some stage of an AN. That's much larger than the 1 in 100,000 that are diagnosed while living. So I would have to say W/W is a viable option for those that have a tumor that 1) Is difficult to remove/radiate due to location, and 2) Has already resulted in hearing loss or other problems, so there's not much risk of losing more without significant growth. I guess and 3) You are at such an age where the risks outweigh the benefit.
Talk to your physician, or better yet, talk with several. That's one piece of advice that everyone here will always agree with, talk to more than one Doc. Find a doctor you are comfortable with, and listen to his/her recommendations. My physician told me, that if he were recommending a treatment of one of his family members with a tumor such as mine, he would recommend removal with retrosigmoid. You know what, that was good enough for me!
Also you can count on lots of great opinions and help from fellow ANers who have already gone through 1 or more of the 3 treatment options. They are all here to help you through your journey!
Ernie