Hello Neal,
You and me are in the same boat. I had translab 2 days after you and now I'm SSD. Before surgery, i had 60% hearing loss; I had more hearing in lower ranges. I also thought being SSD would feel pretty much the same (it's not).
Here's what I'm learning 8 weeks post op -
my tinnitus seems better, but it's still there
in environments that aren't too busy or noisy or echo-y, i seem to function just fine. My hearing also seems sort of stereo in these ideal settings.
when there's noise around (a crowded room etc,) it does limit my capacity to hear
This is all obvious stuff. What surprises me now is how different things sound , and they're always changing. I have yet to hear any clicking (i've know several others have heard clicks). But I do hear weird noises. Sometimes my hearing is so obviously impaired. But sometimes, it seems more sensitive. I seem to be more aware of some sounds, at least part of the time. It's very different. I ran in a race the other day (with 8000 others). I've run a lot of races, but when we started, it seemed like every person there was chattering! I've never noticed that before; just noticed a couple of people talking. It sounded like the whole world was talking softly. Today when I walked up my driveway, i was really aware of my feet hitting the ground (i wasn't marching or anything!). it's just seems to be an acute awareness of background noises at times.
Other times, i just hear some loud or pronouced noise. This morning i swore i heard thunder (weather was clear). the other night i heard a loud, high pitched screech in my deaf ear (only lasted a moment, thank goodness).
Since I'm going through these changes and adjusting to the new type of hearing i have, I'm holding off on the BAHA or other decision. And, like you, I just don't want another head surgery there right now. Once things 'settle down' I want to check into the BAHA, or Transear (leaning towards BAHA, but will be looking forward to your impressions of the transear). I'm hoping that once I adjust to hearing loss that when i do get a hearing aid, it will be better and I'll be thrilled! Right now, it's been a year since i heard normally anyway. Hopefully a hearing aid will someday bring a big improvement.
Keep me / us posted. I hope you come up with some solutions that you are satisfied with.