Hi Juliec,
I wanted to extend my welcome to the Forum as well - but sorry you had to join this AN club...
Right now i am in W & W mode, because i agree with you, this whole thing IS confusing. (My AN is about 1 cm.)
I have known about mine since last Oct. and am still doing my research, having seen one surgeon and one radiosurgeon. (Same facility.)
Although i have not done this (yet) perhaps you should consider sending your MRI pics and such to House Institute in CA for another opinion.
I e-mailed one of the House docs on a Sunday afternoon with a question, and he rang my cell phone at 9:00AM EST - was i surprised!
Most importantly, this tumor is benign and slow growing, so as long as you don't find any other symptoms popping up, you have time to do your research.
For myself, i want to have the most experienced docs i can find, and i am leaning towards CK at Stanford.
Don't hesitate to ask additional questions.
My thoughts and prayers are with you on this journey!
Sue