Hi Michelle,
Nancy and I had the facial nerve totally cut, so she opted for this tendon transfer surgery. I opted for the "nerve graft", taking part of the tongue nerve and grafting to the face nerve. I'm getting partial results and am starting to feel more tingling on my left side of the face, so am looking into acupuncture (I think!) until more surgery can be done.(hopefully!)
In Chelsea's case, the nerve was not cut and facial function does slowly return so it is important to watch closely for changes. You are so blessed that you have a surgeon who is seeing her every month over the next 6 months! Every doctor will have a different opinion. It is exasperating. So the "don't do anything for 2 years" was a stupid thing for the other docs to say. I swear these docs need to take a class in communication etiquette! And there
is a lot that can be done. Surgeons are out of the loop on that one.
It's a scenario where you keep all options open and are aware of all options.
So may want to have your list ready for the doctor with questions such as:
"What are our options depending on how much facial function returns in 6 months?" See what he says. Hopefully she'll have full function back. DO ask what he thinks about acupuncture and facial massage.
BUT since she just had surgery, he may say to wait 6-12 months. I don't agree with the 2 year thing though. How bad is her facial paralysis?
Let us know what the doctor says.
Hope this helped
Maureen