Hi Captain Deb!
Thanks for the reply to the post, it was nice to hear from someone with similar pasttimes as myself. I too have been a charter boat captain in addition to my normal day job. Although, I really loved being able to have conversations with passengers but since my surgery am worried how I'll hear folks for the wind noise while sailing.
I really hate this deafness thing, much more than I thought I would. I've had ADD since I was a kid, so carring on normal conversaations was hard for me with hearing in both ears. Now, I have half that, and it's nearly impossible. Everytime I go out with my friends, I cant hear any of the conversation and just sit quietly to myself. I've tried the usual tricks, have my good ear facing the conversation, try places with little noise, and all that. But really any noise, people talking, multiple conversations, or normal street traffic negates my participation in any other conversations. It's really depressing. I like being a pretty social guy, but I cant carry on conversations anymore. Even my girlfriend is frustrated with me when I don't hear her, or I ask her to repeat things. I used to like the fact that I am a personable guy, who enjoys conversing with people, now, I feel like I can;t hear anything unless someone faces me and speaks loudly. It's really frustrating.
As far as diving goes, this past week I had my six month mri. I saw the picture and was a little scared, so I'm going to hold off pressing the panic button until I meet with my doc may 3rd. Hopefully then, he'll be able to give me some answers on the dive thing. I am scared though. I've been getting this aweful headaches that started a few weeks ago. Just shooting pain on my an side. Everything has been going great for a while now, so I'm getting way frustrated that I'm hitting stumbling blocks now. Anyway, just thought I'd vent, its been kinda a frustrating day....thanks for listening...er...reading.
Jake