Hi there dear friend. Hopefully I can help answer some questions, cause as you know and reading my blog, I went through all Plus some.
Glad to hear they are holding off Christmas, sure they will be understanding if you need to leave the room.
I took little earplugs with me everywhere. It helps lower the noise in your good ear anyways (otherwise for me, I got too much head pressure). ALSO, try to 'scope' out the area to see if you can sit where your good ear is more towards where everyone else is (otherwise I didn't understand anything.....I hate that!!) Those little soft foamy ear plugs are available anywhere and don't usually cut off the hearing completely.
Delayed Facial Paralysis, for me, that did extend the pain meds. I'll be honest, I tried to wean off, but ended up still taking some (not as much) close to 6 weeks (although, I had a few additional issues you may remember). When they say "stay ahead of the pain" I learned the hard way....it helps!!! I went to an Optometrist specialist Monday (my 8 weeks post op) and he said my eyes were still off some and really my paralysis was about 90% better. He put in a plug in my tear duct and that is now helping the dryness in that eye (even though it closes now....but less lubing it)
I think Cheryl R. recommended the Refresh liquid gel daytime and I liked that best too! BE SURE to keep your eye lubricated otherwise it can hurt and dry out/scratch your cornea! My surgeon gave me that clear eye patch with the foam around it, and I wore that everytime outside and to bed at night too when my eye wouldn't close, it kept the moisture in!
Hopefully some of that helps, I think you still may have my # or email , whatever, take care! CALL if you ever want. I'm pretty bored!!