dear onelove6366,
my son was just diagnosed about a month ago with the tumor being 4.5 centimeters ,we have just about a week ago got news of his surgery date which will be on august 24th, i share your anxiety about the whole situation, my son is 22 years old and everyone says that he has his youth in his favor and should make a speedy recovery, it just seems like we have been constantly waiting,but i guess if the doctors thought it couldnt wait ,it would be out by now, i have faith in them ,my son is going away on a little vacation with his friens next week, and i think and hope and pray it will do him a world of good to get away and take his mind off it for a little while, Maybe you and your husband could do the same ,even for a weekend before he gets surgery, it might help to not be thinking about it or be depressed,,spoil him ,pamper him ,make his favorite things, thats what im doing and will be doing for my sonup till the day he goes into surgery, anything i can do to make it a little easier on him. The doctor told us he too will lose his hearing,and maybe have some facial paralysis, ,but i say if that is all then we are blessed,because he can still hear out of the other ear perfectly. Have faith that all will go well,i truly believe in the power of prayer,yours and so many other who will be praying along with you as you go through this journey with your husband. Good luck !!! and God Bless!!!