Hi there!
I am posting to tell you congrats on making it the 'other side'! I am one year post op...had my surgery when I was 29. So I wanted to lend my 'good ear' to you if you ever want to talk! Being diagnosed with an AN (or any significant diagnosis for that matter) at our age, comes with its own emotional challenges. Please send me a message if you would like to talk...any day...any time!
As for the car...I had my surgery out at House in LA. My first few times in the car I just kept my eyes shut. Our first longer car trip 'test drive' to Malibu left me quite dizzy upon getting out of the car! After a couple of weeks it was okay. Keep in mind that it is a lot of brain input when you are seeing things flying by! I still find car rides fatiguing whether I am a passenger or a driver, BUT I have residual 6th nerve palsy from the tumor. Just give it time and try to limit yourself to short car trips and rest your eyes while riding. Also, you may find that grocery stores and places like Target are challenging. They do get immensely better over time. I wear sunglasses whenever I am outside as well and it helps reduce eye strain, too.
Another thought...did your Dr talk to you about vestibular therapy? They had me start after I was 5-6 post op. That really, really helped me get functional again. They also provided me with great (not to strenuous) exercises for my eyes...I am happen to share those with you too!
Good luck with your recovery. One of the hardest parts about it, is staying patient and letting your body heal. I had a hard time coming to grips with not being able to necessarily 'work harder' to fix something. I learned that sleeping, walking, eating well and taking vitamins were the most I could control and the body would do the rest of the healing...on its own schedule
I will be thinking of you!
Kris