Hi Eric,
Sorry that you have a AN, and that you lost your hearing. Reading your post gave me the impression you were looking for some form of confirmation or approval about your decision. One thing I have learned here at ANA, choices have to be made by the patient, it's not our place, even though many of us will share our experiences be it surgery or radiation. Having said that, you have shown some wisdom by learning about your tumor, operations and facilities. Health decisions require us to learn as much as we can so we can make an infomed choice. Whatever we decide, for the majority of suffers, these tumors ultimately have to be dealt with. There is a lot of literature out there, and some of it suggests that younger suffers should chose surgery, but many people are frightened of surgery. For me, I chose surgery and I was 54 at the time. I have had three other prior operations in my day, none of them related to my AN. I didn't even give brain surgery a second thought, just figured another part of my body will have stitches. I've had a very successful operation here in the NYC area, but from what I have seen on the posts here, you're headed to an excellent place.
It's stressful whenever we are faced with surgery, but you will be fine and I look forward to reading your post during recovery.
God Bless.