hi Allison, im just catching up with your posts.
My incision is like a C shape, starting at the top of my ear curving towards the bottom of my ear. I had 22 staples to close it up. I have titanium mesh, and no belly fat. From what i understand that is a surgeons preference. A friend of mine had brain surgery (for a totally different issue) and her surgeon replaced her skull piece.
My words of advice, depending on how long your surgery will be, your body may be sore, in fact this was worse pain for me than the actual surgery. I was in surgery for 15 hours, and my body was in the sme position, during that period i also developed a blood clot from not moving after surgery, so make sure that you get up and out of bed as soon as you can. I did not have pain on my incision like I thought that I would. Of course i favored my other side when sleeping the first few days, but my neck hurt so bad that i couldnt really turn it to sleep anyways,. and i slept in a sitting up position for the first few days. Once i could move my neck more, i actually slept on my incision side, because i had an IV on my non AN side in the arm, and i couldnt lay that way or else i would cut off the IV drip. This was all bevause i had a prolonged stay in the hospital due the blood clot, but i am more in the minority than the majority.
once in awhile now, my incision bugs me, when i lay on it, but i just turn over and everything is fine. But for the most part, i dont realize its there, except for the dreaded ringing in my ear that gets louder and louder......
good luck, and use this website for so much and learn so much. The people here are amazing and great supports. Im not on as much as i used to be leading up to surgery, but each person on here still holds a special part in my heart for the support they gave me.