The major reason that the 3 doctors who perform surgery (and not GK) recommended surgery, is because they would feel comfortable operating since that is all that they do.Do yourself a favor send his scans to House Ear Institute to Dr. Friedman you will get a free opinion and also to University of Pittsburg Medical Center Dr. Douglas Kondziolka for a free mail consultation. They both are among the best in the business. They gave me each a free mail consultation both do surgery and GK.
You may note that I had my surgery done with Dr. Sisti at NY Presbyterian in 2004 and then when it grew back in 2012 I went to him again to have my GK. I had a 3.1 cm Acoustic Neuroma at the time I had my surgery. I was petrified of having brain surgery again as I had it before in 1974 (for an AVM totally unrelated) with a long recovery period.
In 2012, I had 3 consultations ( one with Sisti, one with Golfinos and one with Kondzuilka) I picked the original surgeon cause I went with my gut! A GOOD QUESTION TO ASK IS IF THIS WERE HAPPENING TO YOU WHO WOULD YOU TRUST? Both Dr. Sisti and Dr. Konzuika answered that they would go to the other. Dr. Kondzuika taught Dr. Sisti .They both have been in practice for 25 years. I live in NY.
In 2004, I panicked and didn't want to have surgery, so I stock piled my consultations (wasting time) and I got 14!!! This was way too many! The last option that I didn't take was to have GK in 2004. All the other docs except the last one had said "your AN is too large", what finally made the decision for me was that the last doctor (Dr. Noren) I visited didn't have enough experience targeting with CT scans.
Do your research and follow your gut, make sure you go to the one that your husband Mike feels the most comfortable with. Say hi to him for me, it's nice to finally meet another Mike!
Good luck you and he are on a long journey. I'll pray for you both if you'd like.
Welcome to the ANA forum, you will find many friendly patients here, this is a site that is rich with information and unbiased opinions. you'll feel like family here. It has been a boon to me! Don't forget to check out my blog "THE YELLOW FLAG"
Regards,
Mike