Jean, Don't listen to your doctor, facial retraining may help. I have been amazed at the progress, ever so slight, that I've made in the last 6 weeks alone. For example at my first visit when I smiled the AN side of my mouth reacted much slower. After working with the mirror it now responds as fast as the other side. I didn't think I had any synkinesis but Todd picked up on some right away. Another example, my neck muscles tighten when I smile which could be causing my smile to pull down. I'm working on that as well.
I don't believe the docs think alot of things actually help us and as my friend the PT told me, the docs don't know it all....Keep the faith.............
As for Pittsburgh, they are great about out of towners (we are 2.5 hours away.) The first visit was 3 hrs, I stayed the night and did 2 hrs the next day. My next visit was 3 hours.