One sad chick! Just want to give up!

[Soundy]

That is exactly it... I hear all the time that I look OK ....

Both the AN surgery after effects and my lupus problems are invisible... and unless you have been there you don't know how bad these invisible problems can be

[nftwoed]

Hi karascott;
   It may be important, re ADA law in the future, if you tender a resignation, that you state exactly what the health reasons were if you have at any time asked for 'reasonable accomodation', or will.
   I had a problem when the law was just initiated in that my resignation letter did not include health information. They told me because of that, they did not have to offer reasonable accomodation. That was 1997.