Hi Jamcats,
I had the same thing 18 mos ago,, I would recommend the eyelid weight also,, I have a 1.2 gram gold weight, helps close eye, still needed drops during the day and ointment at night to keep/ cornea healthy ,, don't need drops as much lately but still use ointment at night..
I had a 12/7 nerve graft done 4 days after AN surgery to connect facial nerve to tongue nerve,, that has allowed my nerve to grow back and some movement of face after about first 6 mos,,, I don't expect to ever have "old" smile or movement ,,, but have some of both after 18 mos,,,
Good luck to you both,, it is a hard journey for sure but surmountable ,, it will take time though ,, no rushing things,,I was told 12-18 mos for nerve to grow back and I am still seeing some improvement at this point,, patience and time will be his best friends,,, that and YOU,,,
keep coming on here and let us know what Drs tell him ,, we care ,, Jane