Batty,
At least you found someone with some sympathy. Nobody professional has ever expressed anything like that to me, more like just, buck up and make things work! I know what you mean about when you are walking alone. I can't even begin to think about how many times someone has snuck up on me because of my deafness! I know sometimes DH does it on purpose! I lose balance turning my head also but I think it may be because I'm not looking where I am going and can't sense it with my balance nerves. I feel like this because when I was swimming in the ocean, summer of 2005, a big wave came and I had to duck under. When I came back up, I didn't and it scared the shoot out of me! My kids saw me though and helped me to find up and down. Was very scary, haven't gone in water like that again and it has changed me. I also understand what you mean about feeling it would be different if your face wasn't numb, and although mine isn't now, it was after surgery and it doesn't feel any different, to me, anyway :/ I have feeling in the right side of my face and head, but it feels like I don't, if you can make sense out of that! I get creeped out in the summer months when there are bugs around and one buzzes in my left ear and it reminds me that I can't hear it buzz in my right ear. Maybe I should plug it up to keep the bugs out! Just a random thought
~Karen