Hi ted7970 and welcome to this forum .....
I applaud you for finding us on the Internet.
I, as well, am one of the older ones diagnosed with an acoustic neuroma.
You are probably correct that the reason we see more posting by younger patients is how savvy they are with smart phones and internet use these days.
Perhaps someone will chime in with "age at diagnosis" statistics here. I do know that more ANs appear to be diagnosed as incidental findings these days because MRIs are ordered more frequently for various complaints re: head issues.
I do not think anyone has shown that having an acoustic neuroma shortens a lifespan.
Age-related hearing loss does tend to run in families, although it is also a given progression of the aging process. Many times older people ignore the loss when it occurs gradually. The hallmark is usually noticeable loss in one ear only.
What, if anything, are you doing related to your diagnosis? Have you seen an ENT?
Many thoughts .....
Clarice