This is just my opinion and how I navigated the process, so obviously take it with a grain of salt. Not all places are comfortable with middle fossa, or don't do it as much, and I think sometimes they advise patients away from that particular approach.
If House thinks you're a good candidate for middle fossa, then I would strongly consider it. The way I looked at it, all options have risk, and you have to weigh those risks against the potential outcomes. I could have done W and W. But I felt like choosing surgery right away gave me the best possible chance at the best possible outcome. Maybe it was more important to me that I keep my hearing than it is for some, and I"m lucky that I did. My tumor was 1.2 cm, and I was told about a 65% chance they could save serviceable hearing. It came out that I hear just like I did before the surgery.
The recovery is tough for a few weeks. Fatigue, the dizziness can be pretty bad. I also had some anxiety problems. But, by 4 weeks I was doing pretty well. Now, I feel great. I do long bike rides. I walk to work every day. I do still notice some off-balance symptoms when I turn my head quickly and in certain directions, but that should continue to improve. I really could not be happier with my outcome and thus my decision.