Thank you Sydney, Jane and Karen for your thoughtful and encouraging replies.
I just had my hearing test and exam with Dr. Santos at MEEI and he will be working with Dr. Barker for my treatment.
It turns out that it is only one AN and that Dr. Santos has the experience to view the AN at multiple angles so his assessment has lessened my concerns a little. Dr Santos was very thorough about explaining my options. I agree it's hard to make the decision to have the surgery, especially when you know that you're going to initially come out of the surgery feeling worse than when you go in. The recovery seems like it'll take a sharp bite out of you for a while. It's definitely a decision that puts your symptoms at the forefront for the most reasonable plan. In my case I can't see an option that doesn't involve the surgical removal because for whatever reason my biggest symptom is nerve pain which I'm finding difficult to function around.
I was happy about my audiogram results which showed only a little hearing loss, so that's pretty encouraging.
The doctor said that the surgery for me would be the retrosigmoid. He said the size of the tumor is considered medium and this approach allows me the best case for maintaining my hearing.
How intense is the recovery from this kind of surgery? Will it mean I can't drive ? I have four children so I'm a little concerned about the restrictions. Also, how long is it before you can take a plane? I feel like there could be an entire recovery manual written for these surgeries.
Thank you all for your kindness and support, it's really nice to have people to talk to who really understand and have so much insight into this condition.
I still laugh at the part of Sydney's comment ... welcome to the club that no one wants to be a part of .... LOL