kkweiher:
I gather from your posts that you are not interested in quitting work at this time so applying for Social Security Disability is probably not an issue for you.
As you pointed out, your doctor (ENT) is the obstacle. He refuses to sign a form that says you are permanently disabled because he considers you 'fully recovered' from your AN surgery. I'm speculating now, but I'll bet he doesn't want to put his signature on any document that might portray his work as not being totally successful. Not to excuse the ENT,who sounds dense and stubborn, (these two personality traits seem to usually act in tandem) but this could simply be a matter of semantics. As I previously stated, all of us suffering with SSD are handicapped. Now, I consider my greatly diminished hearing a distinct disability - but, the law may not. I suspect your doctor is looking at this issue and being legalistic, as some physicians tend to do. He needs to understand what you are actually trying to achieve, which is not an 'award' from the Social Security Administration for being 'disabled' but a bit of financial help from your employers insurance, which, unfortunately, is called 'disability' insurance. And there lies the crux of the conundrum. Semantics. 'Disabled' having a much different meaning to the insurance company than it does to you or me. The fact is that because the insurance company pays, their definition will probably stand and your current ENT is not going to sign anything that terms you 'disabled'.
As an acoustic neuroma patient with Single Sided Deafness, I believe it is a disability. As you correctly pointed out, your hearing isn't coming back. Post-op symptoms can persist for years - and cause you to miss work. I certainly have to believe this situation qualifies as a 'disability'. Unfortunately, most insurance companies do not. Apparently, your doctor does not. The only viable course of action I can see is to find another, less rigid, doctor who can see beyond legalisms and testify to the fact that SSD and other post-op AN complications do qualify as a disability. I truly hope you prevail.
Jim