Hi - I read your post in the hospital stay category and my diagnosis seem really similar to yours..3.5 cm tumor,lost most of the hearing and balance prior to surgery, body compensating, etc. I didn't have translab but retro-sigmoid surgery so it might not be exact but here's what happened time-wise with me...my daughter kept a log of sorts on the surgery day - good idea to have someone else with your wife as the day gets pretty long. My drs. at Mayo told my family that the surgery may take anywhere from 6 - 12 hours - what they meant was EVERYTHING involved - and they told us after the surgery that they generally give a big window of time so that their bases are covered - you might worry more if they say six hours and it takes eight, etc., etc. And of course, they don't know everything about that tumor until they get in there (is it "sticky"? where's the facial nerve? that sort of stuff..)
So here's how my surgery day went....
6 a.m. - arrived at hospital
7:15 - taken to pre-op
8 a.m. - put under anesthetic
8:58 - incison made
11 a.m. - nurse update, may start closing about 1 p.m., hopefully everything is finished by 5 p.m.
3:15 - nurse update - closing incision started
4:48 p.m. - out of surgery and into recovery and then ICU
7:05 p.m. - family came in to see me
I don't remember much after the surgery but can distinctly remember getting a sponge bath, that the nurse sounded an awful lot like my brother-in-law (that was eerie) and having a small arguement with one of the doctors - he was trying to rouse me and I told him to leave me alone because I had a headache!
The day for
you will be very quick!
I had surgery on Wednesday, was in a regular room by Thursday at supper - had a bit of the jello, soft diet, etc. but really just wanted stuff to drink and ice chips - my mouth and throat were extremely dry and sore (I remember them pulling out the breathing tube - it was just like on TV! and I don't ever want to remember anything like it again! Gag!). I was sitting up shortly after that and by 9 p.m. I felt really good (the anesthesia was pretty much gone by then). I was up walking around the next morning (very slowly however), had a shower, ate real food... I was a bit dizzy and weak but that was gone fairly quickly - when they tell you the sooner you get up and going the better - it's true! And keep going!
My eyes did a funky thing tho...it was like they were working independently of each other and I had a hard time focusing, watching TV, etc. They put an eye patch on the surgery side eye and after about a day like that, it was much better. You might not want to count on the gameboy - you'll be resting alot, too! I was discharged on Satuday morning and on my way home (six hour travel time) on Sunday a.m.
My husband and daughter brought card games with them, books/magazines to read, and a laptop computer to watch movies. It was somewhat helpful but not matter what you have to do it's still hard to wait.
Good luck you in your journey.
Siri Meyer
Crookston MN